Locktober Reflections 2025
Among men who don’t live locked and chaste, there’s a common belief: the bigger the penis, the better. For us locked bois, however, the opposite often seems to be true – size is not what matters most. Instead, many lockees aim to wear a smaller and more compact cage
Locktober Reflections 2025
This morning, as I walked into my kitchen and my eyes fell on the tree in front of our house – now dressed overnight in a coat of brown, beige, yellow, and orange leaves – I realized for the first time this year that autumn had truly arrived here in Germany, in
Locktober Reflections 2025
In today’s reflection, I want to explore the topic of obedience more deeply. The thought came to me on my way home from work, sitting on a train next to a family of four. Although very little was said between them, it quickly became clear that the father was
Locktober Reflections 2025
Today is a special day, because after many months of planning and thinking it through, I finally launched my new live conversation series The CageTalks on X. For quite some time now, I’ve had the wish to connect and interact with the community on a more personal level – and
Locktober Reflections 2025
Admittedly, the chastity lifestyle can sometimes come with frustration and disappointment. So today, at the halfway mark of this year’s Locktober – the “Bergfest,” as we say in German – I want to reflect on how to best deal with those moments. First of all, no one should ever feel bad
Locktober Reflections 2025
Last Friday was World Mental Health Day — and it reminded me how deeply my chastity journey has been connected to healing and mental well-being. Because for me, chastity has never been just about control or kink. Over time, it’s become a deeply healing practice – one that has helped me
Locktober Reflections 2025
In today’s reflection, I have a little confession to make: even though it might not always seem that way, I too have moments when I’m incredibly horny – even while locked. Because even after more than 600 days of permanent chastity, my hormones still sometimes go on a rollercoaster
Locktober Reflections 2025
How sexy is chastity, really? That’s the question I want to explore a little more closely in today’s reflection. Especially now during Locktober, many online platforms (at least that’s true for me) are overflowing with locked and caged content. And yes – I admit it (I think I’
Locktober Reflections 2025
Today’s reflection is a little different from the previous ones. That’s mainly because this weekend has taken me to Brussels, where I attended the very first Chastity Social ever held in Belgium tonight. That’s why I spontaneously decided not to write about a specific word today. Instead,
Locktober Reflections 2025
In today’s reflection, I want to talk about the many different reasons why people choose to practice chastity – whether for a limited period of time or permanently. Depending on what someone is seeking from this fetish, kink, or lifestyle, it can lead to completely different approaches, routines, rules, and
Locktober Reflections 2025
After talking about self-worth yesterday, today — purely by chance — we’re moving straight on to something closely related: self-confidence. As I already described yesterday, I find it fascinating how wearing a cage has changed not only the way I perceive myself, but also how I view my abilities and potential.
Locktober Reflections 2025
For me, it’s always fascinating to observe just how much long-term influence being permanently locked has had – and still has – on me as a person. Especially when it comes to my own sense of self-worth, which is what today’s reflection is all about. But what exactly do we