Today is a special day, because after many months of planning and thinking it through, I finally launched my new live conversation series The CageTalks on X. For quite some time now, I’ve had the wish to connect and interact with the community on a more personal level – and
Admittedly, the chastity lifestyle can sometimes come with frustration and disappointment. So today, at the halfway mark of this year’s Locktober – the “Bergfest,” as we say in German – I want to reflect on how to best deal with those moments. First of all, no one should ever feel bad
Last Friday was World Mental Health Day — and it reminded me how deeply my chastity journey has been connected to healing and mental well-being. Because for me, chastity has never been just about control or kink. Over time, it’s become a deeply healing practice – one that has helped me
In today’s reflection, I have a little confession to make: even though it might not always seem that way, I too have moments when I’m incredibly horny – even while locked. Because even after more than 600 days of permanent chastity, my hormones still sometimes go on a rollercoaster
How sexy is chastity, really? That’s the question I want to explore a little more closely in today’s reflection. Especially now during Locktober, many online platforms (at least that’s true for me) are overflowing with locked and caged content. And yes – I admit it (I think I’
Today’s reflection is a little different from the previous ones. That’s mainly because this weekend has taken me to Brussels, where I attended the very first Chastity Social ever held in Belgium tonight. That’s why I spontaneously decided not to write about a specific word today. Instead,
In today’s reflection, I want to talk about the many different reasons why people choose to practice chastity – whether for a limited period of time or permanently. Depending on what someone is seeking from this fetish, kink, or lifestyle, it can lead to completely different approaches, routines, rules, and
After talking about self-worth yesterday, today — purely by chance — we’re moving straight on to something closely related: self-confidence. As I already described yesterday, I find it fascinating how wearing a cage has changed not only the way I perceive myself, but also how I view my abilities and potential.
For me, it’s always fascinating to observe just how much long-term influence being permanently locked has had – and still has – on me as a person. Especially when it comes to my own sense of self-worth, which is what today’s reflection is all about. But what exactly do we
What exactly makes chastity so beautiful in an aesthetic sense? That’s a question I’d like to explore a little more closely today. Because when I first began wearing a cage more seriously and posted my first small steps and reflections on X, I really had one main goal:
Do you know that feeling when things just don’t go as planned? That’s exactly what happened to me with this post! Originally, I wanted to end the day by writing about the role anal orgasms play for me as a lockee. But when I started thinking about it…
What’s something I find hot about being locked? Good question. I actually had to think about that for a moment today. Because even though I’ve now been wearing a cage and staying locked for 600 days, I still of course have sexual urges and desires. Chastity simply changes