Locktober Reflection #1
Today I want to reflect on how life-changing it has been to become a permanently locked boi.
When I was younger, kink wasn’t really part of my world. I knew a few people with fetishes (and maybe admired one or two of them), but overall my sex life was ordinary, even vanilla.
That changed the moment a Hypno Master introduced me to chastity. From the very beginning I was intrigued – then quickly hooked. I ordered my first "weareable" cage from Amazon, then another, then discovered KINK3D… and soon I found myself diving deeper into what being locked could truly mean for me in everyday life.
With guidance from someone I still call my Coach, I became more consistent in my workouts and diet. And suddenly things shifted – not just on the outside, but on the inside as well.
My mindset changed. I grew bolder at the gym, no longer afraid that someone might notice my cage in the showers. I grew used to the feeling of being permanently locked. Wearing a cage 24/7 reshaped my discipline and even how I saw myself. Posting regular CageChecks on X helped me grow comfortable with my own body and taught me how to capture myself in a way that felt authentic and proud.
It may sound superficial – or even narcissistic – but underneath, what truly happened was mental growth. I shed my shyness. I became braver. I connected with more and more people in the chastity community, and those conversations opened doors to friendships that still matter deeply to me today.
That was the turning point: I realized chastity wasn’t just a kink for me. It was becoming a way of life. I began to love denial, to crave the permanence of my cage. When I finally committed to 24/7, I wasn’t even overthinking it – I simply followed my instincts, one day at a time. And before I knew it, time had flown… and here we are: Locktober 2025.
Looking back, the change has brought so much more than “a piece of plastic” into my life. It gave me courage. It gave me discipline. It gave me a community. And above all, it gave me joy.
So if I had to sum it up: chastity made me bolder, braver, more disciplined – and, most importantly, happier. Every time I see my cage, or someone else proudly wearing theirs, I can’t help but think: That’s who I was always meant to be. And that’s something I am grateful for every single day.